The Difference Between Being Somebody And Nobody is Only Which Way You Choose to Face

David Lee Roth

“People ask me how far I've come. And I tell them twelve feet: from the audience to the stage.” – David Lee Roth, Born Oct. 10, 1954.

This one is for the little baby gurus out there. The people who want to become a “somebody” in their field, turn their experience and knowledge into content and products, and profit by selling it to an audience of fans…

Many who are ambitious or extroverted are born performers. They can climb up on stage without a drop of embarrassment or an iota of fear.

I wasn't like that. I'm still not like that. Manufacturing my own little modicum of micro-celebrity was terrifying for me.

I worried if I was smart enough. Funny enough. Valuable enough. Attractive enough. Successful enough. Effective enough.

That twelve feet from the audience to the stage can seem like a canyon of fear so wide that you can barely see the other end.

But you know what? Build a ramp. Strap some rockets to your dirt bike. Put on your little helmet and cape and start revving that engine, you little daredevil, you.

Because I'll tell you a secret.

Being on the stage MAKES you good enough in the eyes of the people who would follow you. Being the one who DEMANDS attention instead of constantly looking for something to distract yours. Being the one who BROADCASTS rather than receives. Being the one who PRODUCES rather than consumes.


Because they feel that exact same fear. They see a canyon when it's really three short strides. They doubt themselves. They fear rejection, criticism, responsibility to perform – all of it.

But what I've found is that if you work at building your ideal audience, right where those people actually hang out – you find them, you help them, you build with them and for them…

They are forgiving and encouraging. They multiply. And by the time your “fame” spreads to the world outside your bubble, you've got fans around you creating a wall that insulates you from shitty, negative haters.

The things you fear in the bottom of that canyon are phantoms and shadows only.

And they can't dull your shine, you crazy diamond.

So if you've watched others do it, if you've watched me do it, and you want to have it for yourself: here is the stage. It's yours whenever you claim it.


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